Body positivity: what boudoir photography is made of
We’re taking a moment to discuss body positivity as it is a huge part of the boudoir photography experience. This is my second attempt at this vlog (the first didn’t even make it to print) and I’ll tell you why.
First, boudoir photography is absolutely the culmination of body positivity, empowerment and confidence. It’s an ego boost like none other and, if for no other reason, you should book one just for yourself.
This is my second take
Last year, when attempting this vlog, I was being more than a little stereotypical with ideas like “don’t worry what you look like.” Unfortunately, when I started talking about how everyone has their own unique beauty and should feel great about their session, I stopped (like quite literally). Something was wrong and I just couldn’t get the words to form. Then, wedding season kicked up and I had to pause the vlog for a bit. However, it did give me time to think…and I believe I’ve figured it out.
When photographers throw out cliches and platitudes like “all body types are beautiful” or “don’t worry about your looks”, they are assuming you are at that place. The place of confidence in your body. And that’s what I realized during my hiatus: no matter if you’re a man or woman, the journey to a place of self confidence-that place where you WANT to book a boudoir session-is unique to each individual person. And no matter how many compliments you receive, that is a destination everyone must reach on their own.
Now, of course, definitely support friends in being body positive and accept their compliments as well. That’s part of the experience too, but, ultimately, you have to be the one to internalize that confidence and make it about who you are.
A Photographer’s Perspective (and a Little Honesty)
As a male boudoir photographer, I know I can’t fully grasp the societal pressures women face regarding body image. I can’t personally understand the impact of things like postpartum changes. But what I can do is use my skills and expertise to create stunning images that reflect your inner power. I know the posing techniques, the flattering angles, and the editing that will make you see yourself in a whole new light. You bring your beautiful self and we’ll bring the magic and the artistry.
And we don’t have to be just the goal line. Our studio is a no-judgement, positive space where we hope to promote a positive self image no matter where you’re at in your journey. And boudoir can be just as much part of your journey as it is a celebration at the end of it.
- Simply YOU: This is all about celebrating your essence. Think of it as a modern portrait session, capturing the incredible woman you are today. No lingerie required, just pure, unadulterated YOU. It’s like a graduation photoshoot for the amazing journey you’ve already traveled.
- Essential YOU: Want to dip your toes into the world of boudoir? Our one-hour, bed-only session is the perfect introduction. Experience the thrill of feeling gorgeous and confident in a relaxed, intimate setting. Plus, you’ll receive a 10% discount on any future bookings!
Ready to Start Your Journey?
This isn’t just about taking pretty pictures; it’s about celebrating you. It’s about embracing your strength, your vulnerability, and your unique beauty. Ready to begin? Contact us today for a consultation. Let’s create images that will remind you, every single day, just how amazing you truly are. We can’t wait to meet you.
BONUS:
While, as a photographer, I play my role in helping you reach a positive body self image, however, here I can also link to articles that can help support you along the way.